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Announcing ~ SUNDAY MARCH 16th: An OPEN channeling session with me and other COL Teachers who channel the Council of Love’s Archangels, Ascended Masters, Saints & Enlightened Beings. Join us for an hour of Q & A, inspiration and the purest loving energy. Starting at 11 am EDT, Sunday! Here’s the LINK
for Conversations with THE COUNCIL of LOVE ~
https://us02web.zoom.us/j/89896565132
This is Jennifer. I’d like to share my story with you. I’ve been moved to offer channeling lately in small groups, hence the Sunday event. I sometimes ask myself, “why?” I’ve had to work through past life memories of untimely demise, and layers of timidity and projected scoffing, and still I want to channel… I want to share channeling with others. I do already share that via the blogs, but more than that… I want to share the ENERGY of LIVE CHANNELING with any who are open to listen. It is such a pure, intense and beautiful energy, one that lights my heart on fire –and I cannot keep it to myself.
All ascended beings, those who reside in a vibration higher than good ol’ 3D, carry an energy of love, and we do always ward the gathering by calling in the Archangels to bless and protect us. Sometimes we channel our favorite 5 Archangels: Michael the Protector, Raphael the Healer, Uriel “Uncle UU” resident shrink, Jophiel the father of Jesus, and Gabriel/Gabrielle, who gave the Koran to Mohammad and first told Mary that she would bring forward the Prince of Peace. They are all five very wonderful.
Sometimes we act as the speaker for one of the Ascended Masters (pictured above from one of our webinars, thank you, Rob) – any with whom we particularly resonate, sometimes it’s just who steps forward when we are centered and willing. I often feel Yeshua and Mary Magdalen ready to speak, but my teammates (see https://alighthouseforthesoul.com) often channel Lao Tzu or St. Germain or Sanat Kumara. Occasionally, it’s a complete surprise, and we might get a Leprechaun or other Elemental!
Do we sometimes channel our own souls, our “higher selves”? Yes, indeed! Isn’t all channeling from our higher selves? Yes, to a degree, but, more than just us, it’s often a partnership, a dance, if you will, with the energies of one we have invited to dance with, to play with by choice in the higher energies. It’s a collaboration, and a great model for how all of us interact when in our dream time or between lives. This is how it really works:
When in the physical body as we are now, we as channels open our heart centers, and our upper chakras, creating a passageway for the energies of a higher vibrational being to flow through, specifically to use the language centers of our brains, thereby picking up our education and some of our vernacular. The energy then flows to our hearts where we feel it, discerning the tone and content, where we get the opportunity to “approve this message” or stop. Then the energy will come out of our mouths as language, as coherent words. In my experience, the energy has always, always been positive, sensitive, highly intelligent and desiring only to be helpful to us on the planet in our lives. The energy is enlightening, loving and healing, this I can vow.
In case you’re wondering “Who are the Council of Love?” The Council of Love is a large umbrella group of very high vibration, always of love and service and supreme wisdom. We who channel with the Council of Love have developed years of trust and experience. No one awful ever shows up! They cannot jump that high. We who channel have maintained our skills through our channeling practice groups, some of which have been going for many years- and we have remembered skills from lifetimes of preparation in the mystery schools or the mystical branches of the world’s religions. What we have in common is our channeling teacher, Linda Dillon, in my humble opinion, one of the finest channels active in the world today. https://counciloflove.com
I hope I’ve piqued your interest to join us this Sunday, or for one of – what i hope will become- monthly zoom event, scheduled for the “spiritual but not religious” who prefer to hang out in their pajamas on the weekends (let’s see a show of hands!!) It will be 11 am, my time, Eastern USA, but that’s 8 am on the West coast, or afternoon in Europe, so check where you are… I will be sharing some of the messages here on the blog, but we won’t be recording, so as to promote the comfort level of the attendees.
We hope you’ll join us if you can! We sure would love to see you. Come as you are…
BONUS!! TREASURE HUNT: on Rob Loveland’s website there is a free gift, a downloadable PDF booklet about the Ascended Masters ~ see if you can find it!
Transcript of the LIVE session on Sunday, February 16, 2025 : PART ONE
Jennifer: All right, well, if you would all settle into your hearts.
I’m just going to talk myself into a space where the channeling comes easily. And if you would just hold space for me, send me your love and, hand in hand, imagine yourselves holding hands around this group today, and hold sacred space for Mary Magdalene to speak with us.
Okay, take a couple of deep breaths. Feel those breaths all the way down in our heart centers, into that beautiful love space, the center of our being, where we are completely connected with Source, with Mother and Father, Divine Mother/Divine Father, with our Teachers, Guides and Angels.
I visualize Divine Mother at my front, Divine Father at my back, Yeshua and Mary Magdalene on either side, they are the ones who feel so close to me these days. I’m so grateful. Mary is putting her hand in my hand. And Jeshua is here as well. He and Mary are beautifully joined as twin flames, as One. The Divine Masculine & Divine Feminine representation to us as our Teachers. And Mary, will you speak with us? pause….She is reminding me of a necklace of hearts that she gave me this morning. It is like a circle of hearts draped around my shoulders. I’m so grateful.
Mary Magdalen: This is Mary, your Mary Magdalen, your Mary Magdalena. You may call me Maggie. You may call me anything. I’m delighted to be with you. I am so pleased to be called upon to speak about love, as there is love in All That Is. You would not be without love. You would not BE without love. And yet, many times when one is walking the human walk, one feels lonely of love. One feels that love is missing, that love has been lost. And this can happen through the passing of a loved one. It can happen through a breakup of a relationship. It can happen through change. Change is rather a challenge in the human element, but you are truly never without love, because you ARE love.
So it is to ground yourself within your own being, within your own centers and to know again, remind yourselves again, remember, your own nature, your own true nature is LOVE. And that does not mean that you do not occasionally express yourselves as less than all the love that you are. There are many gradations of love, many ways of loving, many kinds of love, many different expressions. Small kindnesses are love, compassion for others going through a difficult time – that is love, a regret that you spoke a hasty word that was less than love – that is love, that is returning you to love.
Love is your nature, and you will always return to love, but it is natural at times that there is this reaching out, this longing for a love that you know is there and you are not at the moment feeling. So it does help to center you in your own heart, but it does also help you to call on Divine Mother, Divine Father, any of us who are here to help you in the higher dimensions, to lift you up, to remind you that love may look like it is around the corner. It is coming.
It is coming. It is just about there. Just blink and love will be present for you. It cannot really hide. It is the human mind, at times, that tells you that you cannot see love. Perhaps you have heard the beautiful teaching to look in a mirror? My dear ones, my beloved ones, look in a mirror and you will see love. It is your spiritual journey to leave behind judgment at such a moment, and you all are well on the path to this. Leave aside your judgments, leave aside your criticisms of your own dear self. No human is perfect, and yet you are perfection in your beauty, in the beauty of all that you are, in the radiance of your soul. You are beautiful, and your human self will reflect this if you allow yourself to smile at that reflection in the mirror, to give gratitude to that one you see embodied in the human journey.
It is a long and difficult journey. It is a huge challenge, which you take upon yourselves when you leave the all that is when you leave the higher dimensions and jump into a body. It is a huge challenge to be human, and yet it is a huge blessing to be human, the exquisite pleasure which you feel when you feel another’s heart, whether you have fallen in love or embraced child, whether you have kissed your elder, whether you have held your mate, whether you have held the hand of a brother or a sister, and seen the love in their eyes, the appreciation, the encouragement, the willingness just to be together in this adventure. You all know so much love. Each of you knows love in abundance.
~ Channeled by Jennifer Joy Donaldson, 2/16/2025
Part Two with the Q & A session will be posted next week.
Thanks, everyone. Really appreciate the likes and comments! With Love, Jennifer
In our channeling group, we were wondering about the practice of forgiveness…and that sparked a really good answer channeled from one of our Council of Love Ascended Masters, my beloved Mary Magdalen. She is so smart about feelings. As we approach the New Year, and leave 2024 behind, it seems like a valuable spiritual practice to forgive ourselves and each other, to live and let live, to let go and bless. Even more so, it feels like the only path to Unity. Enjoy the message… Happy New Year! Love to all, Jennifer
Jennifer: I’m just aligning and receiving: opening my heart and crown… giving my ego some toys to play with, maybe some candy. Get him all sugared up. For some reason, my ego is a he– it’s very funny! …. Ah, so Maggie is here.
Mary Magdalen: Dear ones, I’m grateful for your presence. I’m grateful for your loving circle. I’m grateful for the opportunity to speak with you after my beloved Yeshua spoke with you at the Fall class [Who’s Yeshua? at OLLI, with Linda Dillon channeling Yeshua on forgiving]. I would be happy to elaborate on both of these topics.
Let us begin with forgiveness. Yes, it is extremely important in these times, because it is difficult to hold your divine neutrality without it, whereas if you can say to yourself that you forgive yourself —for your humanity and for everything you didn’t understand that was less than love or that led to an expression of less than the love that you are— you will be elevating yourself to a place where you can observe and offer love both ways, within and without. You see? And forward and backward.
Think also about loving your self of 40 years ago, 50, 60, years ago, 10 years ago, love yourself for the mistakes you made. You are human. Life is about mistakes. The human life is a wonderful arena, a playground, in which to make mistakes. And some of you have become so afraid of making a mistake and so punishing to yourselves when you do so. And this is not helpful. This carries a residue of heaviness within you.
First of all, you will feel some anger, because no one should have to carry this heaviness for so long. And secondly, you will carry some shame, because you think that others will judge you, or have judged you, or you have somehow created a mess in a way that is not forgivable. It is all forgivable. It is all forgivable.
As Yeshua said, forgiving is a way to wipe the slate clean, and you do have with your sovereignty, your divine sovereignty, the supreme ability, the divine ability to forgive and to wipe the slate clean. So allow yourself that. Clarity leads to clarity. Allow yourself that purity, which you essentially are, to be the spokesperson for your being, to be the presence, to be your Divine Presence.
So, the forgiving within, and the forgiving without, and the forgiving without works in the same way. You allow others that same tender understanding that they are human. They do not know what they are doing, they do not understand what they are doing, and those few who may understand and still prefer to stir the pot, so to speak, will be forgiven as well, because anyone in the fullness of their own divinity would not choose to create chaos of this type.
And so they are not in the fullness of their own being. They have perhaps forgotten. They have, perhaps at some point, denied themselves the ability to be fully good, to be fully love. They are, in many cases, punishing themselves so harshly that they believe they are only capable of evil, of ill, of mis-creation, you see, so… it’s, well, “If I am not going to love and I’m not going to be loved, then I’m just going to create as much trouble as I can.”
You understand this, you have all had twinges of this, perhaps in a situation in which you were held unjustly apart from the love of those who you love. Yes, this is part of the human experience, all aspects of separation. But is it ultimately truethat we are separate from one another? No. This is the illusion. This is the illusion, the illusion of separation, you see. So all are, all are forgivable, and you are capable of forgiving all, as you give them the same loving tenderness that you can offer to your own dear self. And you know your own ability to love and your own desire and longing to be understood and accepted and loved, despite your faults, despite your choices, which at times have caused some harm.
….. I so enjoy our coming together in this way. It is a great pleasure for me, and thank you for all that you are contributing to the world at this time by your being you, in the many ways that that expresses.
Blessings on each of you.
Channeled by Jennifer Joy Donaldson, Nov. 1, 2024
Jennifer: I’m feeling Saint Germain, who I don’t channel very often, but welcome.
St. G: I’m most honored to be present with you this evening in your time, in your world, in your seeming reality. In fact, you are in my reality, but you are snoozing a bit. You are enjoying your projected reality. You are enjoying your world-making, you have become accustomed to this hiding. You have become accustomed to this way of presenting life to yourself.
It is very interesting to see the threading together, the sewing together of the different fabrics. It is as though you are making a bit of a crazy quilt with your ideas stitched together into a most wondrous composition. All of this comes together, little by little by little, with your intention to create meaning, to create understanding and to, ultimately, see yourself as you truly are, see the love that you are, as you are, and, you see, you will not look like your asserted identity. You will look like each other, One.
You will see that falling in love with every other single human being on the planet, every other life form on the planet, every expression of beauty, every mushroom, every chipmunk, every rock, if you hold yourself in such a beautiful state of readiness to – I was going to say ‘adore’, but it is not idolatry. It is an appreciation for the miracle and the wonder that you truly are, by being the amazing creators that you are, creating this reality, projecting this outward from yourself and participating in it together.
You have all met on the playground and said:
‘Let us create this wonderful world. Let us do this together. Let us see what it will bring us. Let us enjoy it together. Let us learn together. Let us play together. Let us have theater together.’
You see, it helps to have this perspective. Not only is it accurate that you are inventing what you are seeing, but it’s also extremely helpful, because it helps you to really begin to distance yourself a little bit from believing that everything you see is really happening to you. No, it is happening from you. It is happening through you.
It is happening by your very nature that you have the ability to do this. What you see outside of you is not exactly real. No. Of course, you have invented it. It is a facsimile of what reality is. It has echoes of reality. It has glimpses of reality. It has hues and clues of the reality that you are a little bit afraid to actually imagine, you are a little bit afraid to embrace.
All of you, to some degree, are still hiding, because the immensity of who you are, the immensity of the reality of the One that you Are is a bit overwhelming for the human mind. So love yourselves until you are open and ready, until you are ready to open that great door in your mind and allow the truth to be simply the magnificent truth.
Yes, you have visions of Tyrannosaurus Rex. You have visions of things that are too much, a volcano, something that is overwhelming, something that is frightening, yes, but you will, you will outgrow your fears, my Dears. The more that you let in the love, the more the fears will be healed. Love heals fear.
Do any of you have a question for me?
Teammate: Love heals fear and remembering who I am, but when you’re so… where do I go from here, with what I’ve just experienced for myself, and I know I created it, and I know a lot of …I understand that intellectually, but like, even with the La Ho Chi stuff I’ve been doing, it created fear, because, I don’t know, something that [another teammate] said to me, it’s like it can accelerate. And can you explain that more?
St.G: Yes, I believe it may be helpful to understand that as your belief in the outer world and its threat to you is gradually questioned, you begin to question first —before you fully understand that your belief is baseless— but as you begin to question your belief, your total belief in identity and reality as you see it, your fear will magnify. This is the fear of your duality, the fear of the part of your mind that believes in duality. You see, it is something that at times your, your fears will magnify, and intensify, because you’re…[let’s say it this way] the part of you that has been in control for so long fears to give up control. It is its favorite thing to do.
In the Course in Miracles, this is referred to as the ego. You see, it is referred to as the part of the mind that prefers to be the navigator, but in fact, has led you astray for a great many lifetimes. But you are used to this as being the human experience, and all you want is the best human experience you can have, and you look to your riches, or you look to your wonderful career opportunities, or you look to your magnificent loves that you can have one to another, your relationships.
You look for different things in each lifetime to be your salvation, to be your reward for being human. And in fact, it really is to understand that it’s all a play, it’s all a movie, it’s all a projection, because of your fears, your fear to truly be love, your fear of your own grandeur. And it is not you singular. Remember, you are very much a part of it. But it is not you singular. When we say your grandeur, we mean the grandeur of the One, the grandeur of all that you are connected to, All That Is, and it takes a good long time to bend your mind to receive this. You will spend many years in wonder and appreciation as the gradual dawning of All that you are opens more and more greatly.
But yes, when you have reached a place where you begin to understand, your mind will seize up and begin to become greatly agitated and greatly frightened. And that is not the divine part of the mind, but the control part of the mind, the ego part of the mind, the ‘identity,’ the one that is fully immersed in belief, convinced of the truth of duality. That has been your navigation system for so long, it is very difficult to give it up without having it become alarmed, [and] make a lot of noise.
So, just know that you are going through a period of great value. You can say to yourself, ‘How wonderful that this fear is erupting in me. How wonderful that that I’m suddenly panicking, because my duality is being healed.’ See? ‘My mind is being healed back into One mind. I am allowing myself to begin to be navigated with My Divinity rather than my ego.
Teammate: I feel like, it’s just so much effort, and not that it’s not positive — in a moment, just stop the effort, to the degree I can see, I can see, at least in this moment…’
St. G: Don’t try too hard, my Dear, just say ‘Yes’, say ‘Yes’ and allow your angels, your guides, your Higher Self, your All that you Are to inform you, assist you, relieve you, teach you, hold you, kiss you. See? You are surrounded by love. It can take many forms.
St. G: All right. Good night, for this one occasion. Bless you all. Thank you.
Jennifer: That was sweet. He’s very sweet. He’s very dear. [Thank You, St. Germaine]
I’m in flow these days on how to spell Jeshua’s name, with a J, or a Y, – how do you feel? To me, the J retains the long relationship with the one we know as Jesus, but Y reminds me of the inner Master, the original Beloved… “Call me Chocolate”, He jokes, as I sit here typing. (He does not care how we spell it)… “But do call me… I am most happy to engage with you in play or in conversation.” Really, I feel such deep gratitude for the miracle of His presence. “Just choose it,” He says… that’s all we have to do.
In this week’s channeling session, Yeshua discusses the experience of learning to live in the flow of LIFE itself, LOVE itself, without defenses, worries or self-doubts. It’s definitely a choice- and a learning process, maybe one you can identify with also? Happy to read your comments, always. LOVE, Jennifer
Channeling Yeshua:
Jennifer: So I have a question and it has to do with letting go of time, when one is in creative mode, when all that one has committed oneself to and all that one has dedicated oneself to seems to be happening at the same time, can you just let divine timing sort it all out? Just let go of the control of all of that?… and we’ll see who wants to answer…
Yeshua: We appreciate your holding space. You are wonderful friends, and dearly beloved. This is Yeshua.
This one [Jennifer] is letting go, in some valuable ways, to controlling or reaching for a particular outcome, before it is presented. This is very valuable. This is an important step toward being able to live in the flow, because one cannot control the flow. If you want to live in the flow, you must release your expectations of how this will show up each day and how it will resolve itself. And if you have ten things to do in a day, and only so many hours, then you must just trust. Some of those things will wait patiently until tomorrow. Some of those things will evaporate completely. Some of those things will take less time than you thought they would. Some of those things will expand and fill your day.
So this is an important step in trusting your own creatorship, your own authority, author-ship. You see, this is a wonderful horizon which Jennifer is just beginning to play with. So there is some puzzlement about how can this be? Will this really work? Is it possible? Is it too much? But if you are, as has been said earlier tonight, if you are living in your heart, if you are living in your love and want nothing more than to overflow and express the divinity that you are, you will find many opportunities coming forward to you. And you do not need to leave the doors closed, do not ..do not need to shut them because you are afraid that there will be too much energy, it will come too quickly or will overwhelm you.
You see you are in authority because you made a choice. So allow the choice to carry you, allow the choice to bring forward all of the wonder and the surprises which you only had a little tiny glimmer of when you first made this choice. And as it opens that up, do not be tempted to close it down. You see it is like an aperture, you know your apertures, they open and then they close. You are asking for this [opening] and yet you keep going like this [closing].
And of course it gets bumpier and it gets more uncomfortable and things collide and things don’t work out and you feel like you are too too limited. You start believing in all of your limitations. You are “too old, you are too…” this, too that and the other. You haven’t got enough energy, you don’t have any time, you don’t have, you have lack, and you start believing in all of that. And it is all a fantasy, a nightmare. A movie that you have created to convince yourself that you are not divine.
So if you are going to fully embrace your divinity you must let go of closing that aperture. Open it, let it blossom. See what flows through. And trust. There is so much energy there and it is a little bit frightening to you and this is understandable. How can such vastness be shaped, controlled? How can you keep yourself safe in such an environment? You have been spending your entire multi-series of lifetimes, thousands of lifetimes, keeping yourself safe, keeping yourselves small, keeping yourselves hidden.
So [the next step would be] to step forward, to ride the surf, to ride the crocodile down the Nile, to work with Mother Earth and all of her kingdoms, to work with the Father and all of the angelic realms, to play with us and yet to understand that we are not more than you. We are not more than you. You just have not yet completely accepted your vastness, your greatness— not great as ‘George Washington is great,’ some famous person. This is not important. This happens to a few. It is a choice. But great as our Father is great. Our mother is great, their children are great —how could they not be great? They are wondrous. You are wondrous.
Be unlimited love. You do not have to “practice” this, just BE it. Just do it. Just Be Love. It is so simple. So simple. BE LOVE until that is what you are doing. And all activity, all motion, all action, all connections will flow from that. That is all that we hope for you, that is all we desire for you, is that you know your own being, in all of its love, and all of its majesty.
We love you.
If we are complete, we will bid you a very very good night.
(Thank you.)
Bless you.
Channeled 7/29/2024 by Jennifer Donaldson
I’ve been mulling over the value of long term relationships, as my husband and I were approaching our 50th wedding anniversary early in May. Many of our generation have divorced, had multiple marriages, many married later, or not at all, some sadly have even lost their long term partner to death, so a Golden Anniversary feels like we are triply blessed… yet, why do I feel like questioning the value of spending one’s whole life with one person? This wonderful heart to heart with my dear Mary Magdalen, during one of our channeling sessions, put it all in perspective for me, and I am deeply grateful. Enjoy the channeling…
(This illustration is from a little calendar on my desk given to me by a sweet old friend I’ve known since high school)
Jennifer: It’s very timely for me, this idea of the value of the long term relationship. It seems like there are costs as well as benefits, and I’ve been kind of chafing a little bit at the idea of adjusting to certain limitations [such as aging], when in fact I’m beginning to feel more and more unlimited, and I have the desire to feel like I am being absolutely in integrity with my soul’s purpose and not with the expectations of society as to how long relationships should last. I’m just interested in hearing more about relationships and maybe my friends here have questions too. I’m feeling Mary, Mary Magdalene, “Maggie”, my Dear one.
Mary Magdalen: Thank you, Beloved ones. Yes, I am here. I am very interested in this topic. The topic of the value of relationships, the connections between each of you…
You know you have unlimited connections between all expressions of the Divine Father and Divine Mother. You will feel these connections at different times and sometimes many, simultaneously, and as you become more and more comfortable with your own limitless-ness as a Being incarnated, you will become aware of the variety and multiplicity of connections on many levels, with one another, with many in your world, with students, potential and long ago, nowadays, with what is happening within your extended family, what is happening within your group of friends, what is happening within your circle of those who are advancing, growing, developing, evolving each day into their mastery -which we have mentioned before, is this group.
We want to set your mind at rest in the sense that you do not need to concern yourself that you have to limit yourself to anything other than the truth of your experience. And as long as you can maintain the truth of your experience within your primary household, then this relationship will be fed, this relationship will be honored. It is important that you be able to express the truth of your experience— your feelings, your evolving understandings— and to share that to the extent that the other is willing.
It is fine if your beloved is not your major confidant about spiritual things because there certainly are enough points of connection and enough ways in which you inspire one another and touch one another’s hearts. And that is the important thing. The important thing is that you feel nurtured in your relationship, that you are not the only one doing the nurturing, that there be an infinity loop between you and the heart of anyone who you are going to dedicate a great deal of your life to — and have— that there be this infinity loop of giving and receiving.
And sometimes you are the leader and you’re the teacher and sometimes your beloved is actually showing you some things- much to your surprise. So you see, a balance. A relationship is valuable in as long as it continues to be a source of encouragement, support, comfort, companionship, inspiration—there are so many aspects to a good relationship.
And you do not have to think that your relationship is perfect. There may be areas in which you do not completely coincide and this is perfectly fine. You are not missing anything, my Dear. You have had many lifetimes where you have had much shorter relationships and so, give yourself the knowing that this is the lifetime in which you chose one long and thoroughly valuable relationship. Receive that gift. Hear your own truth. I’m speaking your truth, my Dear.
Are there any other questions about long relationships? Or relationships in general?
Teammate 1: As you were talking, it occurred to me this whole notion that our chosen other has to think like we do and have the same interest that we do is completely false, in that it’s actually the differences between our interests that make us more complete as a whole. Is that true?
Mary M: Very well said. Yes, indeed, it is true. It is actually more in the nature of friendship where one will find a complete coinciding of interests. Say you have a bowling buddy, someone you enjoy bowling with and you look forward to your Friday nights -or whatever it is- and you love those friends, because they enjoy what you enjoy. That is fine, but that’s not your primary relationship.
It is very good for there to be a a real difference, a significant difference in your approach to life, if you’re going to continue to spur each other into new areas of understanding.
Teammate 1: Yes, thank you.
Mary M: Yes. And [Teammate 2] ?
Teammate 2: … I was just wondering for my relationship. We are very different. He’s not on the spiritual path although he accepts me, which is the love, right? And so when we come into this Earth, I mean, we have a choice though too, right? It’s a choice. I mean, I’m very happy, but I was just wondering, like, how much of it is a choice and how much it is we come into this world, this plane, this earth, at this time, together? You know, I was just wondering what the differences, the nuances are; I guess it just depends.
Mary M: Well, it is it is a longer topic, perhaps, than we have time for today. But I would say you are well aware of the choices that you will be coming to within your life. Your friend A and your friend B and your friend C have all said, “Oh yes, I’ll be in a relationship with you.” And then, when it comes time, A may feel a little better than B, or C may, in fact, be the most comfortable. And this is why many young people go through, or later in life if one happens to be single, you go through a period of “Should it be this person or should it be that person that I build my nest with?” you see, “that I choose to be with most of the time.”
It doesn’t mean that’s the only love possible in life for you. Love is always possible, but you have planned this rather thoroughly and carefully, ahead of time, with total understanding on everyone’s part, that whatever works out will be fine.
Teammate 2: Right. thank you
When you feel finished with a relationship, be true to yourself, and honor that. This one keeps asking herself “Well, isn’t this long enough? It doesn’t feel like it’s finished.” So it continues and it continues, until it feels finished. And when it is very finished, you know it, because you know you’re not in alignment with yourself anymore. You’re not in integrity with yourself. But as long as your relationship is thriving, you are learning, you are growing and you are stretching yourselves in your ability to communicate and support one another, the relationship is of great value.
Yes, I’d be happy to talk about this more another time. I do fancy myself somewhat of an expert in the field of relationships…(chuckle). It has been my great delight to be talking with you today.
Jennifer Donaldson Channeling Mary Magdalen 5/3/2024
Messages From Grace 